E hiahia ana koe ki te hoko i te iukereiniana wahine. I te faaipoiporaa, ki te iukereiniana wahine

Ka taea e koe te tono mo te tukua e te noho

E kore koe e me te whakaaro o te reira rite ki te wahine ka taea e te faahoruhoru i, no te mau horo'araa, te puawai, ki ngā Rā i roto i te Wharekai

Sounds pai rawa ki te kia mau.

Na, mo te tangata i te Asia, Africa, me te China, ehara tēnei i te Raruraru, no te mea te tangata i enei wāhi i haere mai ki te Ukraine ki te ora i reira. Ki te e taea ki te mahi i tenei ture, e hiahia ana koe ki te tukua e te noho, me te whiwhi hoki koutou i roto i Ukraine i runga i te māmā, i roto i nei ka marena i tetahi tangata ki te iukereiniana uruwhenua. I runga i te mākete i roto i te Kiev, pērā i ngā whai wāhitanga e tapaea ana, mo te tāra ka taea e koe te hoko i te iukereiniana wahine e noho ana i roto i te fare o te wahine te noho.

Me pēhea te maha, e whiwhi koe ki te kite i te wahine mau, o te akoranga, e tu i runga i te rerekē whārangi.

Te iukereiniana te kāwanatanga e kore e te mea ki te whai i tēnei ara o te ture manene, heoi, tonu te tino i roto i te arotahi, pea no te mea te reira i runga i te tuatahi te tiro i te mea heahea ki te hiahia mo te iukereiniana tukua e te noho tau, i reira e rave rahi Ukrainians rite hohoro rite taea ki te tiki i roto i te whenua e hiahia ana. I tēnei wā, i reira te he, heoi, te hoki o te iukereiniana taha, e kore te taki, ahakoa te faaipoiporaa tūturu ranei, he teka, me te reira he whiu ki te kitea.

Ki te tiki i roto i te Germany rite ki te tangata iwi ke, i runga i te tukua e te noho pūmau, ka whakaturia inaianei katoa kauwhiti i roto i te nekehanga, i roto i te tikanga ki te whakatutuki i tēnei whāinga.

Ehara i te mea onge ki te kitea e koe i ngā pānuitanga i roto i te rongonui te tiro i te rau ki te ahua hauwarea kupu Matua: e Hiahia ana te wahine ki te hoko, me te marena. He maha ngā kaipānui, me te rawa kaipānui ite e pā ana ki tenei kōwhiringa o kupu i roto i te anotau middle, manatu, rite serfdom me te pononga era te wahi e taea e koe te hoko tonu te wahine, o te akoranga, ko te aamu tahito. Hoki, kia mahara ki te kia hokona e te wahine, a ka ki te faaipoiporaa o te tiamana tangata ke, mana e arotakengia.

Kia te mana ka taunakitanga e te wahine i hokona, anake ki te pūmau Ki te whiwhi i te tukua e te noho, kei te whakaaro te marena te nohopuku, ki te rite te ture, me te whakakorea.

E kore matou e mohio ranei i roto i te Tiamana i reira he wahi, pērā i te i runga ake-whakahuatia i te mākete i roto i te Kiev, kei hea te whakatuwhera ngā ratonga e ai ki te Tumu nga wahine e hiahia ana ki te hoko tono. E hiahia ana ki te hoko i te iukereiniana ranei Russian wahine, ko te kore e whakarongo ki te to tatou hoa Nama i te wāhitau tika, te wahi e taea e matou te hoko i te faaiteraa o te wahine, ka rite ki a tatou, ko kē te reira mārama e te nuinga o te tangata te tikanga o te kore hoko i roto i te tino aronga, engari te noa te iukereiniana wahine ki te tiki ki te mohio me te pea i muri mai hoki koe e hiahia ana ki te tiki faaipoipo.

Ko matou he mātanga hoki ki te Pākehā Eastern matchmaking, me te kua te whakahere tenei momo o te mahi i roto i te Europe.

I reira e tonu atu te tangata i roto i Germany, i kore i te akakoromaki i te mentality o tiamana te wahine.

Mo enei wahine, i whānau mai i te tuatahi

Tiamana wahine e rawa matao ki te kia e hawata ana ki te mahi, me te kore o te whānau-hāngai, ranei te whakaora i te korero, e kore e tika ana mō te Te whakatūnga o te utuafare. Tiamana tangata, engari e hiahia ana ki te whakatau i atu me te ake te wā, te noa, te wahine, mo te oraraa utuafare, tamariki, me te whare, ko te kore e hōhā i roto i te tua ki te mahi, ko te karangatanga a te tupuraa i te wa ano, me te whakaoti i enei mahi ki te tainga o te kawa. No te iukereiniana wahine tenei ko te rite te kahore he Raruraru.

Eastern wahine Pākehā, ko te tikanga he rerekē te māramatanga o ona tūranga.

I te tamariki, te tane e hari, ko reira te wahine. E kore tenei tikanga, heoi, e teie mau nga wahine, he poauau ranei kuware. E rave rahi o to tatou iukereiniana, te wahine, te whai i te taumata teitei o te mātauranga, te maha, ara he tohu whare Wānanga. Enei wahine minamina, heoi, i muri i te utuafare oaoa ki te ora. Ko te reira mo te iukereiniana, te wahine, e kore te mea he koha, tika te tango i te tiaki o te whānau, i te whare, me nga tamariki. Ko te rerekētanga tino hira ki te wahine German i muri i te whanautanga o te tamaiti i rite ki hohoro rite taea ki te whai i te mahi. Na, ki te hiahia koe ki te hoko i te wahine, ko koe i roto i to tatou Teití te Nama ko te mea tino tika, engari anake, ki te te auraa te rapu i te hoa rite, mō ngā whānau, i ngā uara, i te tihi o te uara tauine.